Can't decide whether
you should stay or go?

My personally tried-and-tested tools help you discover where you will feel happiest so you can put this nagging question to rest once and for all.  

Which solution is right for you?

Need to make a quick decision, like, now?

Something has come up and you suddenly need to know what would be the best thing to do? Send me an email for in-depth personal guidance or apply for a coaching session.

Unsure about what to do?

Do you find yourself often wondering where you would be happiest? Book an email consultation to discover what you need or apply for coaching to explore working with me.

Need confirmation
for your decision?

You kind of know what you should do but you just want to make sure that you're doing the right thing? Send me an email for in-depth personal guidance or apply for coaching.


Option 1: email guidance

Best for you if you:

  • want a new perspective
  • need personalized advice
  • don’t want to commit to coaching sessions
  • feel most comfortable expressing yourself in writing
How does it work?

Answer a few pre-defined questions that help me understand your story. I will then send you back a detailed analysis with personalized guiding questions and tools to help you find clarity at your own pace. If you need more guidance, you can book an extra e-mail consultation at a discounted rate.

When Will I get a reply?

My days for replies are Mondays and Thursdays. Depending on when you send me your story, you may have to wait a few days. 

How much does it cost?

One email consultation – 60€ (incl. VAT). Need more guidance? Book an extra consultation – 48€ (incl. VAT).


Get the workbook when you:

  • are used to doing deep self-reflection
  • need some tools and guiding questions to work through at your own pace
What's in the workbook?

The decision to stay or go requires taking into consideration a number of factors. With that in mind, the workbook consist of six chapters which help you explore the decision to stay or go from different angles. The workbook is packed with self-reflection tools and exercises, as well as tips from other expats and repats who have found peace of mind.

How much does it cost?

Option 3: Coaching


Apply for coaching if you:

  • want a single session or to work with me for a longer period of time
  • want to stop having the same conversation with yourself or with the people in your life
  • want someone to point out what seems most important to you
  • enjoy finding clarity by talking things through with an experienced person
How does it work?

Apply for coaching by answering a few pre-defined questions. I will then get back to you with date and time options for a non-binding discovery call (30 minutes). If there’s a match, we will sort out the details thereafter.

How many sessions will I need?

This depends on your situation. In order to work through your decision from all angels, I recommend 5 sessions. We will discuss how many sessions you will actually need during the discovery call so you know what to expect. 

How much does it cost?

One coaching session – 120€ (incl. VAT). 


how I found peace of mind

I was dissatisfied and frustrated with my life in Denmark, though I had no real reason to be. Still, I knew something had to change. Thinking about what to do drove me absolutely insane for at least 2 years.

I saw pros and cons to staying, moving somewhere new and moving back to my home country. 

But the problem was that I was scared to make a big move and then realize that I’d made a mistake. I also didn’t feel like starting my life from scratch again, especially after all the effort I’d put into my life in Denmark.

I needed this next move to be worth the effort and aligned with what I truly, deeply wanted. 

So I started to ask myself some tough questions.

It didn’t happen overnight but after some serious self-exploration I finally began to hear that quiet voice calling me back to Estonia.

And let me tell you – moving was the best decision I could have made because I’ve felt such calm and joy since moving back in May 2020.

I don’t know what the right answer will be for you, but I promise to support you in finding it out so you can experience the same kind of peace of mind.


I’m an adult third culture kid, serial expat of 15 years and a very happy repat of 1 year. 

I’m also a former university lecturer and I hold a PhD in organizational behavior. In my academic work I’ve studied how people deal with change. These days I facilitate workshops and help people transition through change and find their very own aha! moment. I’ve successfully applied all that knowledge to my personal life and now I’m ready to share it all with you as well.

Feel free to send me an email or get in touch with me through Instagram.

How others have found their answer...

STAY OR GO #8 – “I didn’t want to give up when things got challenging”

Reading Time: 6 minutes You can only prepare so much when you move abroad. So when things don’t initially work out as you had planned or hoped, it’s easy to start thinking about giving up. This is Emily’s story of how she chose to push through anyway and continue building a life in Munich, Germany.